It has been three years since I left my job in a broadcast network. And today, on the way home from Antipolo from a pictorial with the Cake Queen of the Philippines, Ms. Avelina Florendo, I could not help but look back at the places I’ve been to and people I’ve met whom I never would have seen or encountered had I stayed in my job and sat behind a desk.
CCS student, Julio Lapuz, Jr., Cake Queen Avelina Florendo and the writer
Yes, despite having the perks of a corner office and the oft-imagined glamour of working in a TV network, being on my own has turned out to be really good! I can do things on my own time, go after my dreams and live the life I want to live – even without a regular paycheck!
This year alone, I was able to work in a real restaurant with real chefs in UNO Restaurant on Tomas Morato Avenue in Quezon City. That was such a glorious experience, reminiscent of Bill Buford’s bestelling novel, “Heat,” where a journalist goes on a real-life quest to work in New York’s 3-star Babbo, an Italian restaurant owned and operated by Mario Batali.
What was even better was I got to write about the whole experience in my first full article as a food writer in FOOD Magazine. The writeup will be out this June. And then right after, in July, there’s another writeup that FOOD assigned me to do – on the life of the Cake Queen of the Philippines, a most interesting personality in the Philippine food industry as she just happens to be the guru of cake decorating in the country. The greatest of them all -- Heny Sison, Reggie Aspiras, Penk Ching, Jill Sandique plus the owners of the most popular bakeshops in the country – Goldilocks, Red Ribbon, Julie’s, Dexter’s, Gemmae’s plus a whole slew of them – all trained under Ms. Florendo! Her story as the undisputed Cake Queen of the Philippines comes out in FOOD this July.
If I had not decided to leave my desk three years ago, I would not have met her, worked in UNO, got up the time to go to Bacolod last year to infiltrate the kitchens of Manokan Country and to write about my father-in-law’s great-tasting La Paz Batchoy, which I wrote about and eventually received a prize for!
And, had I not opted out of my cushy job, I would not have had the chance to learn how to cook, formally in a culinary school, and to create new dining experiences for my friends and family. I never would have found the time to actually do my own herb garden in our little backyard – a newfound interest and so totally out-of-character and unthinkable for someone like me three years ago.
It has been a whirlwind of activity these past few years. There has not been a dull moment and though I have my share of woes as a “businesswoman,” all in all I am happy. Letting go has led me to meet more and more interesting people and nothing compares to the experience of learning from their own experiences. I've gone full circle -- being where I first started in my career which is writing, but now, writing about something totally different, new and exciting to me -- food!
Yes, there is life after you’ve lived out most of your dreams!























